There are some common mistakes the newlyweds and bad for the continuity of the relationship. The following list is quoted from suite101.
1. Love can solve the problem. Love must be the reason you are now married. However, that does not mean you rely way relationship to a sense of sheer love. In a marriage, not just the love you need, but also commitment, honesty, and intimacy. So do not give up everything on love alone.
2. Busy preparing for the wedding than the marriage life. Almost all the prospective brides do this. They are too focused and busy preparing the feast, but most important is the way of life after the wedding. Generally, the new bride did not expect that many adjustments that occur. If this was never prepared in advance, so that adjustments can be a thorn in the marriage.
3. Desire is not realistic. Do not expect the pair will reduce its activity when it has become your husband. You can not force him into another person after marriage. Discuss all your wishes and hopes her partner. Discuss everything to you and he get way out. Do not let your desire of excessive even become a boomerang for the wedding.
4. Consider the most perfect pair. Not all things from your partner you can see when I was dating. At the wedding, a lot of things about the couple that you did not expect before. Unpreparedness you receive a deficiency spouse is bad for marriage. Remember, when the marriage vow is spoken, it was a sign you're ready for couples under any circumstances.
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